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Iwant to talk about beating stigma and dating. I want to start with education inschools. I firmly believe they should protect the children, learn how toprotect themselves sexually, teach them about their orientation, and so on. How to protect themselves from their STI Ibelieve education is key to fighting against the stigma of any kind. I want to share with everyone why I wasdiagnosed. I told my close family and close friends a few months before mydeath was diagnosed. 

How I Met My New Boyfriend ?

Weended up making out a month later. He contacted me by phone and told me thatplease don't be set or he went to the doctor and asked the doctor if he could attract HIV through making out or I couldn't believe what I was hearing at the time you think that he would be educated enough to know that it's impossible together from making out especially being undetectable. Still, even if Iweren't undetectable, it would be very difficult you'd have the open floor in your mouth, and so would the other individual sauce kind of hurt by that and disheartening that somebody would be that naive to believe that or possibly believe that wasn't even positive at the time. 

First Rejection Becauseof Looking Black: 

I didn't up reach out to some guys Online DatingSite For HIV, and I mentioned I had shared I had HIV. I bought it a flow ofquestions, all sorts of questions  what'shis name and all that stuff like how old I also fit the subject came up I toldhim he was black. The guy said I couldn't believe you slept with a black man. I have never seen any black man like youth dirty, and that was rather insulting everyone's a human being. I respect everyone for who they are doesn't matter what race they are felt disgusted about, and then he just disappeared on my soft cotton, which was fine because I don't need to talk to ignorant people like that.  

 

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Sogenerally, if I ever told anyone online and they've asked me a bunch ofquestions, then they would disappear. A year ago, I ran into a little friend, and I told him I could see slowest my status shortly after we met in person. He told me right away, all you know, that's fine, I got it. I mean, I can dealwith that within. I think he had time to think about it, and later he will get a week later, but he was not ready to deal with someone that's that problem.    

Idon't see it as a problem. I see the doctor once every six months and take onepill a day, and that's I mean I don'tunderstand, and we've been closed off and on throughout the years, and nowthey're not just that I know I wanted to hang out with them. I kept asking we could be friends well to show we got whatever it was to have a friend to be your hug to hang out with. You just kept me excuses. he couldn't it was too busy always, and finally, I told him enough like that six and whatever end just come with me you know he just locked me in walked away out of my life. 

Depressed When I hear Iwas HIV Positive 

SinceI was Diagnosed With HIV in Augustof 2015 had no sexual contact with him. Since then, the first few months,naturally, I was not ready and do it within myself diagnosis itself discriminated against myself. I want to talk about one death, later on, I hearthat's pretty common. It's quite embarrassing to be a little bit that I havenot had any sexual partners. It's affected up in diagnosis. It's been over just over two years.   

Naturally,a human being needs that closeness that bonds with a note human being in thatway in I'm surely locking that, and I'm hoping in the future that will change.I've worked a lot of myself, and I am HIV does not define who I am. This personis still the same John I always then and I received a lot of loving support from friends and family. I appreciate it every day. Remember you're always love yourself; never let any disease or anything define who you are.